Episode 26: How to Use Mindfulness in Your Parenting with Megan Harris
/You know, just like us parents, our kids have big feelings when they are stressed. Just like us they feel overwhelmed, angry, sad; the full range of human emotions. But unlike us, their brains aren't fully developed and they have less experience regulating those emotions, which leads to big displays of feelings, like tantrums and meltdowns that can leave parents feeling confused and overwhelmed.
So, the question is, how can we help our kids learn more about their feelings and how to regulate them, while at the same time regulating ourselves? This is where mindful awareness of our emotions and states come in. It not only helps us be better-regulated parents, who can take a breath, soothe, and then RESPOND rather than REACT to our kids, but we are also modeling really powerful skills for our kids. And we teach them that their feelings are valid, that it's okay to not be okay sometimes, and that they are never alone with their big feelings; they have a partner.
In this episode, I am excited to discuss MINDFULNESS IN YOUR PARENTING with Megan Harris. She's a wonderful mom who aims to empower us to parent through thoughtful instruction, natural consequences, and emotional connection. Here is an overview of our wonderful talk:
1. How to teach mindfulness to your child
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2. Why is mindfulness useful for your child
3. How can parents benefit from practicing mindfulness